
Bossy Girl Leadership was born through disruption. After a car accident that changed me, I had to fight to be heard. In an attempt to quiet me, a neurologist called me “bossy.” He meant it as dismissal. I received it as a calling.
Bossy Girl will always be my origin story. My fire. The moment I decided leaders didn’t need permission to belong in rooms they weren’t invited into. I remember introducing myself as The Bossy Girl and watching people laugh — not cruelly, but uncomfortably. Unsure whether to applaud… or brace themselves.
I smiled, because “bossy” was never the insult they thought it was.
It was bravery. It was voice. It was the refusal to shrink.
Bossy Girl became a movement — one that reminded leaders they weren’t too much; they were enough. That strength and grace were never opposites. I will always be proud of that.
But origins are not destinations, so I pivoted. More than twenty years ago, I had a mentor. John (JP) Phillips hired me for one reason: professional courage — the ability to speak truth to power responsibly. He is analytical., introverted., left-brained. When leadership is rooted in service, difference becomes strength.

That truth anchors BGL.
BGL works with farms, banks, family businesses, global systems, government agencies, and growing teams. Leadership is not a product. It’s a partnership. And partnerships require courage, humility, and love in action.
Thank you for walking this yellow brick road with me — from Beautifully Bossy beginnings to this bold new era.
We’re just getting started.
Love relentlessly,
Kristal Markle-Temons


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